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Originally Posted by britney5  I have taken him for counselling, the only reason we were at counselling is because I have been on at him about getting help for it. |
So how did the counselling go? You seemed to gloss over this a bit.
[/QUOTE]I have made it clear to him how unhappy I am.
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Are you sure? Did he give any indications of actually understanding your point? To me, it sounds like the problem is his unwillingness to participate
fully in a crucial dimension of marriage - sex. Sticking his head in the sand is a defense mechanism, probably to cover up his insecurities about sex. He likely feels as though he is unable to live up to your expectations for a more adventurous sex life. It also sounds like he is not comfortable with his own sexuality.
