Originally Posted by kingsfan
And using another man to make her husband jealous likely isn't going to work, at least not in the long haul. If his issue is performance anxiety, how does it help him to fear that if he doesn't perform there could be another man lurking, wanting for his turn to bang his wife?
if anything, that could make him check out further as he figures his wife is already heading out the door herself (which she may be based on her post).
I agree with you, I don't think that it would be a smart move either. I'm just not sure that the OP sees it that way. I am getting a sense of severe frustration. This breeds desperation.