| | Re: Not here yet, but getting prepared..dating Q's...
Slow down...take a deep breath! We all have those fears of not finding someone or not being "enough" for the dating scene. It will work out.
Right now your 4 children need you and their dad.
Given his snippy remarks regarding have a new family with the new, younger girl....make sure he PAYS for your children. Don't be nice either! He sounds like he is a bit resentful and ugly at this point but you are under no obligation to worry about him now (other than the father of your kiddos). I hope he still stays connected with his children.
He will get his share of Karma...you find your own path.
If you DO start dating, PLEASE leave the kiddos out of your romance. Don't introduce them to someone unless they are marriage material. It's often confusing and yes...annoying (older ones). My opinion.