| | Re: No sexual fantasies, no masturbation
My wife says the same thing, and I believe her because she simply doesn't have enough time to when we're at home, and we're usually at home together (by the way we have a bedroom suite and there is no door between the bathroom and the bedroom, so it would be very easy to find out the truth). And, yes, I believe it has more to do with being raised in a conservative household than a religious one. Children are taught to never think about sex as anything more than a way to make babies or to not talk about it at all, and this has an effect on the kids. This is especially true for girls and ESPECIALLY true for "good girls."
I'm sorry I can't help more, but I'm going through something very similar myself, so I don't know how to combat it either. Just wanted to throw my two cents in.
"I'm not a real doctor, but I play one on TAM."
"Dude, stop saying 'no.' If your wife offers you a quickie in the back of a moving van, you say "YES!"