Re: Can't connect emotionally...
I would like to mention a few more things, just to vent, and maybe even get some more advice.
The BF just asked me if I wanted him to go pick up a movie for tonight or if we just wanted to watch something on tv. I said that I didn't care either way. I then said we could watch something or we could have a chat and he said, just a moment ago, "how long will it take?". I said that I didn't know. I personally don't give a rats how long it takes, so long as we work on our relationship together. It's not like he has anything going on this weekend, unlike me who works at 7am tomorrow morning. I said "you seem uncomfortable about having this conversation with me" and he said "no, I'm not uncomfortable. what is it about anyways?". As to which I replied that I would like to do an inventory of our relationship, with both our wants and needs and make sure we are on the same page, etc. and are working on things that we decide need to be worked on. He was like "ok, I'm going to the store now".
Any thoughts on what I should do? I just want to talk to him, but he obviously doesn't want to.
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