carmaenforcer

Hi jsyffor, this is kind of a continuation of my previous post.
Sorry got cut off.
I am not good about taking others advice. I'm one of those learn the hard way type people.

Just something to ponder if you haven't already.
She knew this other guy since she was 6 years old, probably lied to you about their relationship (secret love affair/infatuation, whatever) since the beginning of your relationship and now is trying to get with you behind his back.

She will only hurt you, and I think that that little voice inside you knows this.

I put my Wife through hell trying to win back my trust, she is still trying. I am a nice guy though when deserved and not when it's not. She knows this and has finally begun to adjust her behavior accordingly.

Sometime people need help from them selves, bailing them out will only act like a safety net and encourage bad behavior to continue unchecked.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.