jsyffor

Thank you all for sharing your advice. I have left the ball in her court and shared with her some steps she needs to take before we can begin working on the marriage.

First she must communicate with this guy and separate from him completely. I do not want anything left unsaid, and I do not want him being led on anymore. I know that he will fight for her...

Until then I am moving on with my life. I cannot continue to hold the door open to my heart while she lobs in grenades.

Thanks again for opening up to a stranger. I truly appreciate it.