Wife4Life

I agree with what others have said in the fact that both persons need to be at that place in time in your life when you are both ready. It took my husband and I awhile to both get to that point. I was married once before so before even talking about getting engaged we discussed openly about our differences, what we expect out of marriage and what we both want carreer wise, children wise for the future. We had a ton of open, frank conversations. I wanted nothing more to get married but even more so this time around I wanted to marry the right person for me. I'm so glad that my husband and I really sorted thru so much even before our engagement. Yes, we have only been married for a few weeks but at least we both got into this marriage being on the same page.

How open and upfront are you with eachother? Does she know what exactly you want to "square" away. Perhaps, you need to have a very frank and open conversation about your future together..Perhaps that may help! Good luck to you!