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Mavash. · 08-05-2012, 04:35 PM

First of all you must stop talking about it. He's heard your complaints and he can't fix it. Telling him that 101th time isn't going to make a difference. And nagging is a total turn off.

As to why there could be any number of reasons. My husband was like that when he was 25 but his problem was with me. I wasn't very nice to him and his self esteem took a beating. I didn't even realize how mean I was being until AFTER we sought counseling.

This is such a complicated subject and off the top of my head I can think of any number of reasons why he changed. Can you do some investigating to see if you can figure out exactly when/why he changed?

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Mavash. Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: South Posts: 4,839	Re: My husband doesnt have sex with me First of all you must stop talking about it. He's heard your complaints and he can't fix it. Telling him that 101th time isn't going to make a difference. And nagging is a total turn off. As to why there could be any number of reasons. My husband was like that when he was 25 but his problem was with me. I wasn't very nice to him and his self esteem took a beating. I didn't even realize how mean I was being until AFTER we sought counseling. This is such a complicated subject and off the top of my head I can think of any number of reasons why he changed. Can you do some investigating to see if you can figure out exactly when/why he changed?