| | Re: What to do when our husband says he's leaving
One thing not to do is go ballistic victim martyr avenging angel. More than once this topic's been broached here and wife's response was so far out of the parameters of normal it was like a cartoon. Cancel all the credit cards, empty all the bank accounts, try to get an order of protection or threaten me with arrest over a completely made up asserting of abuse. And if it was at nighttime, wake up the kids crying and screaming that they have to get in the car and run away with her because daddy wants to kill them....etc.
Yeah I wouldn't recommend that. At first it's shocking but after a while it's laughable.