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Lon · 08-06-2012, 02:27 PM

Marriage only has room for two... if he is gay and gets no satisfaction from a W, then the marriage should end, but I suspect he is just having some new curiosities, wants to explore further along the sexuality spectrum... Two things I can think of for advice: hormones and lifestyle - I have heard that hormone levels have little to do with sexual orientation, however I think they have a lot to do with submissiveness and if his testosterone is lower he won't be getting the same drive to "dominate"... my other recommendation is to get a strap-on and use it on him (if it is something you'd be open to doing).

If he is trying to insist on inviting others into your marital bed though, I'd be real concerned, no good will come of that, especially if that is something you both are not wanting to do (and if it were your marriage is just an illusion anyway).

08-06-2012, 02:27 PM	#2 (permalink)
Lon Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 5,700	Re: My new husband wants to have sex with a man Marriage only has room for two... if he is gay and gets no satisfaction from a W, then the marriage should end, but I suspect he is just having some new curiosities, wants to explore further along the sexuality spectrum... Two things I can think of for advice: hormones and lifestyle - I have heard that hormone levels have little to do with sexual orientation, however I think they have a lot to do with submissiveness and if his testosterone is lower he won't be getting the same drive to "dominate"... my other recommendation is to get a strap-on and use it on him (if it is something you'd be open to doing). If he is trying to insist on inviting others into your marital bed though, I'd be real concerned, no good will come of that, especially if that is something you both are not wanting to do (and if it were your marriage is just an illusion anyway).