Originally Posted by questionme2
we lease. We are basically living paycheck to paycheck.
he also talks about how he wants us to buy our house and he predicts I'm going to make millions as an author.
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I am sorry, I am not doubting your ability, but this man has unrealistic expectations. I write for newspapers too so it's not I have a problem with writing. For me a piece might bring in $40-$50, it would be a joke to depend on that kind of income, so it's my hobby.
One thing about us (some) Americans is we have no good planning. The mention "living paycheck to paycheck" always raises red flags for me. I know so many families that operate on that. It's not good. AND you want to put your son in private school. What if a family emergency happens? Do you all have full health insurance coverage?
Honestly, if your situation is as you described, then no amount of rekindling, hugging, dating can make you feel for your h. I would not. I WOULD move out and see if he would clean up his act. If he doesn't, yes I WOULD divorce him. I know your are Catholic, but that's not a sufficient reason to stay in this relationship, if I were you.