I guess what I was trying to say is that I wish that my wife was more like my ex wife and ex girlfriend, because they did not need lube everytime and a whole grand production and 20 minutes of foreplay to be all wet and READY to go. Once I began making out with my ex-wife and fondling her breasts and backside it wouldn't take very long at all before she says loudly - "I am soooo wet and wanna f*ck right now", and so what man wouldn't want his woman to handle her business like that.