Amplexor

Your wife is involved in an emotional affair. The signs are all there. I’ve lived it so I have some direct experience there. If the two of you don’t work on whatever problems exist in your marriage she will continue to gravitate towards him. I’m very sorry to say this but there may be a physical connection too. There are many red flags here. Taking her wedding band off, coming home late, lying… If the two of you are to be successful in recovering your relationship, she must end all contact with him and concentrate on your marriage. If she won’t do that she cannot connect with you. I understand her point on never living alone but that could be smoke. Separation might be a valid avenue for her to sort her feelings out but she must still communicate with you about the marriage and your future together. Your relationship is obviously not in good health so I recommend you find a counselor to see as a couple. Marriages need help from time to time and counseling can really help. The road to recover may be a very long one so be prepared. Read my mantra below and work those words into your recovery plan. Good luck.

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Amp

Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.