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swedish · 06-11-2008, 10:19 AM

If she is still in contact with this other man and lying to you about it, I think the direction she is headed is to test the waters with him. If she wants to find out whether she still wants to be married, I agree with Amp that she needs to end all contact with him and even if you are separated, counseling or talks to discuss why she is having reservations and see if there are things you both can work together on or not.

06-11-2008, 10:19 AM	#3 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 1,110	Re: First post, need 3rd party advice If she is still in contact with this other man and lying to you about it, I think the direction she is headed is to test the waters with him. If she wants to find out whether she still wants to be married, I agree with Amp that she needs to end all contact with him and even if you are separated, counseling or talks to discuss why she is having reservations and see if there are things you both can work together on or not.