Re: Sexless, affectionless marriage, looking for advice
Wow. This was hard to read. Can't imagine living that way. Personally I have not experienced anything like what you described, however my wifes sex drive is not as high as mine, so I do know what rejection feels like. My advice is to tell her that you are done with going through life without sex. It's that simple. A wifes duty is to give herself to her husband and vice versa. Marriage cannot work if your spouse is withholding sex. You have to put a stop to it. Either she agrees to be more sexual or you need to begin to plan an exit strategy and she needs to know your intentions. The lack of physical intimacy will continue to affect you and your marriage until it builds a wall of resentment between you. If she loves you, she will understand. Good luck and God bless. Posted via Mobile Device |