Originally Posted by cub!chy
I guess I am lucky that its happening and that I can keep up.
So the consensus is that she is peaking? The multiple partners are just fantasies, I put it in, to illustrate that a year ago she couldn’t say sex and now she is openly talking about wild fantasies. It’s all about me and her, no issues. This change is drastic, thus my post, where was this new personality for the last 12 years, why did it take so long to come out?
Yes, you are blessed that you can keep up !
I found myself questioning my husband's desire, even sent him to the Encronologist for blood work, I wanted to know what his Test was , at one point I was almost hoping it was too low so he could get treatment so he'd be a madman for sex.... (this is all kinda funny looking back )...
We learned he was low normal for his age... She even said his numbers were normal for a man in his 60's -he was only 45 at the time!! That damn comment worried me for months, thinking he is all washed up and here I am -just getting started. I wanted so bad to go back in time.
Thank God for living in the day of Vitamin V ...and some Stiff Nights. Ha ha .... I wasn't raping him though, he wanted to be there, so long as he could get it up, he was ready to go with a
on his face. Gotta love that attitude. He's my Hero, then I felt bad...cause I didn't have such an attitude in our past.
If all is wonderful in your marriage, I would think the multiple partners are just fantasy - makes sense to me, I was having fantasies about younger men. But the majority of those was just US re-living our youth & experiencing the things we never did.....we were so vanilla, we should have been
I really did take on the mindset of a Cougar - just let out of a cage. ha ha Darn good thing I wasn't single -cause I think I would have gotten myself into some real touble.
I also noticed I CARED more about his LUST -over his LOVE for me, how funny is that...just like young boys who just want to BANG anything they can stick it into.
Why did it take so long... it is that hormonal shift, I have no idea what 50 SOG even is (???) might want to get my hands on it though ....not that I need any more inspiration... but yet, I love erotic stuff. As I age, I want to keep this mindset flowing.
I found this on the net yrs ago... explains a little what is happening hormonally....even though some of us it seems our seesaw has hit the sky ! >>
| Balance the seesaw. |
When they were first married, the man remembered, he always took the sexual lead, pulling his wife close and whispering his desire to make love. But now, 20 years later, she often makes the first move.
Again, hormonal changes are bringing the couple into closer balance. Men and women both produce testosterone and estrogen, but the proportion of each changes over the years. The male's shifting levels of estrogen and testosterone may make him more willing to follow than to lead, happy for his wife to set the pace. And as a woman's estrogen declines and her testosterone becomes proportionately greater, she may become more assertive.