| | Re: Sexless, affectionless marriage, looking for advice
Hi & welcome.
It appears that your wife likes sex but not with you & I am very sorry for that. Of course this is unacceptable & disresptful.
I would give her a hand-written letter stating your desires & feelings & ask her to provide concrete steps (or you provide them) for change.
If she declines the above, you have your answer.
Divorce is MUCH EASIER on children when they are very young. Do not wait until your son is older.