Originally Posted by Bronco19
The barrier gets reinforced with all the great memories, i only want to focus on the positive times right now, that is changing with mc help. She is only focusing on the negative, which i don't understand. This is tough to admit but she actually said to me she could not remember a time we were happy together bs and crushing. I just can't fathom saying that to someone you spent the last 10 years of your life together, delusional.
She is rewriting history. It's the only way she can keep going with what she is doing, and justify it.
The thing is Bronco. What she is doing, has nothing to do with you.
It's not your problem anymore, you are free.
You aren't focusing on the 'positives'.
You are evading the reality that it's over and sticking your head in the sand while she kicks you in the ass.