Originally Posted by moxy

There is no point in staying in a relationship if the two of you want different things because it will only lead to heartache, unhappiness, and pain later down the road. Just take stock of this situation objectively, for a moment. You don't want a baby. She does. Stop pressuring her to get an abortion. Just because you don't want to be involved in a family dynamic doesn't mean that she has to give it up. If you don't want to be a father and don't want a relationship with your child and with her as a family, then just break up with her and move on with your own life -- while making sure you contribute at least a small amount every month for the care of the child you have made with this woman.