Originally Posted by MrsOldNews
Don't tell me you just wanna sick it in with little to no foreplay involved that's just sad, especially for your wife. And I'm guessing it takes a little more than breast fondling to get most women warmed up. You should be happy you know what your wife needs to warm up and how to do it. Stop pondering the past girlfriend bs and worry about the here and now.
Well the here and now sex wise has been pretty crappy and non-existent for quite awhile now, and I'm allowed to miss certain elements that I really enjoyed from ex-wives and ex-girlfriends because it's normal and I'm only human. And before everyone starts in about "well if you did this - and if you did that", for the record I have already TRIED doing many and multiple things to please my wife in bed, but she flat out admitted that she's never really enjoyed sex as much as she should probably. And when you have been with women in the past who did LOVE sex as much as you do and now you're married to someone who really doesn't, it becomes a problem eventually(and no amount of lube or foreplay is gonna change all that).