| | Re: very short relationship and unplanned pregnancy, is it disaster?
Do not just assume this is your baby. If you continue to have a relationship with this woman and the child, make sure you get a paternity test.
Assuming this is your baby, you may as well stop the negative thinking. You are apparently going to be a father. You talk about her choices. Well you have a different set of choices.
Marrying her because she is having a baby is a bad idea. Marriages that start this way do not last. Now if later you decide that you want to marry her because you love her, that's a different story.
So will you be a father to this child it the DNA test shows it's your child? That the choice that you have to make.
I don't know why you are so surprised that she is pregnant... that's what happens when you have sex. So you chose to take a chance at creating a child.