Welcome TAM CWI newbies- please read this
Read the newbie thread in the link above .
Take a deep breath , the following a a few of the mandatory steps to help save your marriage :-
Your wife leaves her job for your marriage to have a chance to recover, her behaviour and comments to you suggests ongoing contact . It's your marriage or her job , any money's she makes from her job will be lost when she divorces you.
Let both her parents and yours know she was having an affair and identify the OM.
Many newly betrayed spouses resists this advice and the majority end up in a world of pain and ultimately have no marriage. Posted via Mobile Device