Originally Posted by Matrimonial_gloom
I have thought about this extensively. Even with what she has done, I am having a hard time with ruining my wife's reputation.
So her reputation is worth more than your marriage? Worth more than your two children? Seriously?
She NEEDS to experience the reality and consequences of what she's done. Stop enabling her. As long as you enable her and are in fear, she will continue to cake eat. Stop feeding her cake.