Originally Posted by Luonnotar
Why am I doing the 180?
Wow. I guess a little of both, if I'm honest.
But even if there is a little bit of hoping to get him back, fixing my own life will be good any how, won't it?
You've hit the nail on the head. You need to work out whether you want to spend your life with him and work out whether he's really changed. If you don't want to be with him then you've improved yourself in any case which will work wonders for you.
It does sound like he's working to change from an outside view, but the final verdict is really up to you alone.