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What generally happened is my wife sometimes would get into it and sometimes it wouldn't go anywhere. She'd go along in the hope that she'd get into it.
After about 1/2 hour of foreplay she'd just not get turned on. It didn't matter what I did, even if I went through exactly what she told me would work. At that point I was turned on like you wouldn't believe. Not once did she offer to take care of my needs because as far as she was concerned, if she didn't get anything out of it I shouldn't either.
It didn't take that many times for me to quit initiating and we'd have dry spells for weeks to months. Her drive was always in cycles and it would pick back up.