Originally Posted by chapparal
You need to track down who the OM is with 100% certainty. You are going to get a fistful of excuses and explantaitons. Maybe enough to have you questioning yourself. Make sure all your evidence is ironclad so she can't gaslight you and have everyone convinced you just want to dump her.
Ok, so then yesterday I found an old pic of them hugging (I have seen the same pic on her PC before) in her phone pics. She downloaded it in July of this year Is that enough?
I took a pic of it w/ my phone as additional proof. If I am careful and do not spill the beans too early I will imagine it will still be on her phone when I plan to confront her in 2 weeks.