Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - One year out from husband's EA. How did others find things then?

ReformedIdiot · 08-10-2012, 03:05 PM

Hi. Long time lurker, first time poster here.

Speaking from the side of the cheater, first year has gone remarkably well. I'm not divorced after all. I cannot believe, nor recognize the piece of crap I was before. Cannot comprehend what was going through my mind. We are doing good now, I am sure my wife still hurts but doesn't bring it up anymore. I still hurt alot, mostly because of the hurt that I put my wife through. Its one of those things I wouldn't wish on anyone. When I read the posts of people who are going through the same thing we did, I feel terrible for them.

08-10-2012, 03:05 PM	#3 (permalink)
ReformedIdiot Registered User Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 1	Re: One year out from husband's EA. How did others find things then? Hi. Long time lurker, first time poster here. Speaking from the side of the cheater, first year has gone remarkably well. I'm not divorced after all. I cannot believe, nor recognize the piece of crap I was before. Cannot comprehend what was going through my mind. We are doing good now, I am sure my wife still hurts but doesn't bring it up anymore. I still hurt alot, mostly because of the hurt that I put my wife through. Its one of those things I wouldn't wish on anyone. When I read the posts of people who are going through the same thing we did, I feel terrible for them.