| | Re: How to go about seperation
trying: I think it's a good idea..if she's moving that far without the kids...to give her some support but an agreement should be made that there are no major purchases without the permission of each other.
Also...you may agree to not dating others (if that's what you both want).
Another idea...what about how frequent to contact. Do you want no contact or a call once a week or email? That way you both are clear on that communication. She will probably have communication because of the kids but you might put boundaries on it being mutual business and kid talk only.
Just some ideas that we used. No right or wrongs. It's just what you both want.
I agree with the parallel lives. It's good to have immediate support here.