| | Re: Dealing with changes
Hmmm, competition, THAT's the word, that is exactly what we are missing. We are very physical as a couple, and we also wrestle each other for fun and training (she's learning JJJ as well), but it's not real competition - not yet, not until she gets better, and unfortunately she's also lacking the fighting spirit. I also don't want to 'let' her win, I'd rather allow her the opportunity to impress me.
And when she does, I fall in love with her all over again. Otherwise, meh... I'm like that - I love challenges, if no challenges I get bored. In the past she was very fierce too, in the bedroom as well (to my frustration as it's impossible to get away from her once she had her strong toned legs wrapped around me in the morning). We had really passionate encounters, we still do from time to time, but it was always full of dramas in the past.
But yeah, we'll just have to think of something.