Husband hurt my feelings but am I wrong for feeling this way?
Okay last night my husband and his buddy were here and I like his buddy, he's really a nice guy. Anyway something was said about one of my husbands past girlfriends, and how he has had some fine a** girlfriends, well his friend kept saying that he don't want to marry a really pretty girl because of how dingy they are and then I said something about it, the buddy said he never even figured my husband would ever get married, but he was always dating gorgeous chicks. Then he wasn't meaning to hurt my feelings but he did when he said my husband told him why he married me because I wasn't like the pretty girls I was down to earth and super hott girls just aren't down to earth. So basically I gathered from everything that was said: My husband could have kept on with all the hotties but instead married me. The thing that hurts me is not one time did anyone say that I was pretty or I wasn't like the other pretty ones. I feel like my husband doesn't look at me as being as attractive or appealing to him compared to his past girls. Is this immature of me? I never said anything about it, but I feel no confidence right now at all. I know everybody looks at the opposite sex from time to time, but I love my husband so much that Mr. Super Hot couldn't make my husband be beneath him. I guess I just wish they thought I was pretty, not just cool and down to earth. I know I'm no supermodel but I really thought I was pretty ok looking. Please just someone give me a little incite.
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