| | Re: Can it be salvaged
2 things you have to consider.
You say you're a family man and she's unwilling to be a mother. Is it worth to sacrifice something so important now that she's proved to be unfaithful, despite no marital problems?
Second, she needs to give you a valid/rational reason as to why she did this. You don't just end up and sleeping with someone you know from high school if have a 9 year relationship with another. Not at least if you have any value for your SO.