TroubledMn

I am in 30s now and hoping things will get better always because I somehow haven't liked the idea of alienating my parents thinking how mush it would emotionally scar them, they have brought me up from a family where they have worked hard for themselves and given my good education to make me a professional earner. They have this bad attitude of making my name bad in relatives' places so when we visit them they tell me that I had driven my parents out of the house while it wasn't true because I had been funding them always.
But I must admit, this situation has made me less productive at work as well and I sometimes skip office to deal with the bad situation at home.

Now my wife is like she doesn't talk to me - I suggest her that we shall move out but she is diplomatic in her answer. She says I have been well taken care of by my parents and that she hasn't been able to take care of me (to an extent it's true that she doesn't cook always for me and I have had to manage her high spends on clothing and accessories and her thought of having an international holiday every year - Sadly, I have told all this to her earlier as well but I have also quickly followed up with apologies for being rude.).

So my wife says it is not good to move out but then she asks me to search for a job out of this city which I am doing but nothing's working out.


How do I get my wife to give me a thought that we shall move out or that she will somehow adjust with my parents OR still better how can I make my parents be good to her.