| | Re: Marriage at the verge of breaking due to wife-mom strife
But I have stood by my wife in open and always sometime yelling at my parents for being rude on her and that their thoughts of her not cooking well, not looking after kid well etc. etc. are not true. I have many times done that to my parents right in front of my wife. During her first pregnancy, I always stood by saying we would deliver the baby in our city and in a hospital of our choice but when my parent said they didn't want the bad waters in their house, I didn't get what to say bcoz I thought they would trouble my wife more if she stayed here and thinking about her good where she would need more peace during the last month of pregnancy, I said to my wife that she shall deliver at her parents' place. She delivered at her parents' place our first kid and now when she is pregnant the 2nd time and I tell her that we shall do it in a hospital of our choice and that we shall move out of this house and have a rented out space, small but our own house and a midwife to take care, she turns away from it and she says it's not good to be staying away in the same city.....and then she decides to go back to her parents' house and not answer my calls well....she speaks for just 5 mins about our kid, no love stuff, I remember when I had visited her parents' place(where she is currently), she didn't touch me when we slept together and somehow, God forbid I felt relegated too and didn't make nay advances at her. That's it and it's been about 3 weeks now and almost just 3 phone calls of 5 mins each.