I second Atholk. My wife is not the PRETTIEST woman I dated - just by far and away the BEST. I love her more now in year 20 then I did in year 1.
Originally Posted by Atholk
Sounds like your husband made a mature grown up choice, and saw something in you that outclassed everyone that came before you. He married you, which by most accounts is the most significant statement a guy can make about being into a woman.
Ironically, I get the feeling your husbands friend was trying to compliment you, rather than hurt your feelings. My hunch is that you're more attractive than you know (you women are always so paranoid about looks).
My own wife was not the objectively the prettiest woman I've ever dated, but she buries them all with her charm and character. Looks are important, and she does well in that department, but there is a bigger picture to what makes a man attracted to a woman than just bra cup size.
Just tell your husband how that convesation made you feel.