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joevn · 10-25-2009, 08:30 PM

The answers here are objective.

What you are feeling is subjective, and unless you have it worked out of your system, it will continue to bother you. What happens is you feel that you are not measuring up in the looks department compared to his past women.

No woman wants to feel that way. While that may be the truth (not in my case, my wife is hot, but let's say it is), a smart husband would want to continue to shore up his wife's confidence by avoiding making such statements.

Her confidence = more affection/sex or wilder affection/sex. Well, that's been my limited experience anyway.

My suggestion: Sit him down and tell him how you feel. Feelings are not supposed to be logical. If so, we would never fall in love in the first place.

10-25-2009, 08:30 PM	#6 (permalink)
joevn Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: USA Posts: 58	Re: Husband hurt my feelings but am I wrong for feeling this way? The answers here are objective. What you are feeling is subjective, and unless you have it worked out of your system, it will continue to bother you. What happens is you feel that you are not measuring up in the looks department compared to his past women. No woman wants to feel that way. While that may be the truth (not in my case, my wife is hot, but let's say it is), a smart husband would want to continue to shore up his wife's confidence by avoiding making such statements. Her confidence = more affection/sex or wilder affection/sex. Well, that's been my limited experience anyway. My suggestion: Sit him down and tell him how you feel. Feelings are not supposed to be logical. If so, we would never fall in love in the first place.