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dixie · 10-25-2009, 09:19 PM

Thanks for your reply Preso,

Well, it was different when we were dating and out finances were separate. He was different. He was earnest and trying.I was love-struck and stupid maybe...Not sure, Maybe I was too idealistic or hopeful.

We had all these goals together now it seems he has given up on trying on his end to keep his side of the bargain, (in this and in other areas too. With spending time with me and my kid, sexually, ...)

He has taken the role of a child and I am left holding the responsibilities. (This applies in only certain aspects as he does hold a full-time job.) It applies in the rolls we take in the marriage though and in the home-life, and especially in regards to money.

Anyway, thanks,
-Dixie

10-25-2009, 09:19 PM	#3 (permalink)
dixie Registered User Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 10	Re: Husband lying about spening money/spending money when none in bank..!!! Thanks for your reply Preso, Well, it was different when we were dating and out finances were separate. He was different. He was earnest and trying.I was love-struck and stupid maybe...Not sure, Maybe I was too idealistic or hopeful. We had all these goals together now it seems he has given up on trying on his end to keep his side of the bargain, (in this and in other areas too. With spending time with me and my kid, sexually, ...) He has taken the role of a child and I am left holding the responsibilities. (This applies in only certain aspects as he does hold a full-time job.) It applies in the rolls we take in the marriage though and in the home-life, and especially in regards to money. Anyway, thanks, -Dixie