| | Re: Is he depressed?
I am 30 and he is 32. What you have said above is generally the course I have been taking. I am giving him space to figure it out and while he goes to counseling. In my mind, I have given him till December to make some progress or I will make a decision. My job keeps me very busy during the week and I am looking at other activities for me to get involved with.
You were spot on when you said "either depression or he’s done with the marriage". This is exactly what I have been thinking. It's difficult waiting for him to make a decision and I sometimes feel a little pathetic while I sit around waiting for him to decide this. I just try to tell myself if it's depression he needs help and if it isn't then my ass is gone.
If they discover that it is depression what is the best course of action? Medication and counseling? How do I keep sanity while I help him through this?