Originally Posted by anchorwatch
Commit to the marriage or divorce. She needs to wake up.[/url]
I don't know how you can commit to marriage if she is sleeping with the kid. And if he's under 18, can you say child molester attached to her name for the rest of her life.
Wherever they move, she'll have to register as a sex offender, especially if he was/is still a minor.
Maybe the kid is 18 already but if they were doing it while he was underage, good luck trying to save a marriage from that.
IMO, if you find out it's gone physical, report it to the cops or school administration and run like hell.
She's an adult not a kid, she's responsible for her actions and you don't want to be dragged down with her. BTW, her sister's ex-husband did the right thing, he ran for the hills and never looked back.
If it hasn't gone physical, she quits that school right away and it might be time to pack up and leave if it's possible. If word gets out, not one single person in that town will want to be within 10 feet of you.
You're dealing with underage kids here, people will attack your entire family with a vengeance forever. You love your wife but there is NO way a marriage can survive this.