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preso · 10-26-2009, 12:42 PM

if he wants to be a child, treat him like one and tell him NO...

if he doesn't like it, he may move out, if your lucky as it sounds like he will never be the partner you would like.

Stop enabling him.
Go to counseling for yourself and learn to set boundries and
protect yourself.
Let go of your hope in him and start dealing with actualities and the realities of him.

You should seek counseling for sure as you have the signs of being an enabler and he knows it. You must stop whatever your doing to make him think he can live like this. Counseling should be a great benefit to you as long as you follow through with the goals to resolve this problem and stop enabling your husband.

10-26-2009, 12:42 PM	#4 (permalink)
preso Banned Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 2,312	Re: Husband lying about spening money/spending money when none in bank..!!! if he wants to be a child, treat him like one and tell him NO... if he doesn't like it, he may move out, if your lucky as it sounds like he will never be the partner you would like. Stop enabling him. Go to counseling for yourself and learn to set boundries and protect yourself. Let go of your hope in him and start dealing with actualities and the realities of him. You should seek counseling for sure as you have the signs of being an enabler and he knows it. You must stop whatever your doing to make him think he can live like this. Counseling should be a great benefit to you as long as you follow through with the goals to resolve this problem and stop enabling your husband.