melville80

If Playboy was her lifelong dream, she shouldn't have gotten married and had two kids. Call me old-fashioned, but in my opinion, once you are married, you give up your own personal dreams and begin new dreams for you AND your spouse to work on together. Marriage is about sharing, compromise, and no longer being completely self-centered. If a person cannot handle that, that person should not be married. When you get married you are making a commitment to your spouse, and their happiness is just as important as yours. Your wife is being extremely selfish and immature. She is a grown woman and a MOTHER and needs to be a role model for her sons. It's great that she is attractive; however, she should not flaunt this for other men. You are her husband and you alone should get to ogle her body. ALSO - the fact that she is off running around with another guy is outrageous and you should not stand for it. I don't care if he is a "friend." You should be the one and only man in her life because you are her husband. Yes, she needs to forget this Playboy business, take a look at herself, and you two should get counseling. I am a wife myself and I know that my husband would never approve of the type of things your wife expects you to accept - and I would never expect him to.