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hoping · 10-27-2009, 03:22 PM

it sounds to me like she is probably getting a lot of negative influence form her friends and family and perhaps the money situation is not helping... perhaps you should focus your free time on finding a better pay check so you can relieve some of the burden she's feeling. that might help. and also, wine and dine her (not expensive, but next itme you are home cooking diner for her, make it a special one. you know, her favorite food, low lights and candles, fresh flowers and useing the "good dishes") show her that you know she's special. then, when she goes and tels her "friends" that her ____ husband did this last night (my wifes friend talk bad about men.... [fill in the blank] is for however she has started addressing you to them, i am sure it's probably not [loving] at least not at the moment) they will respond by saying how they wish they could find some one who would do that for them....

just a thought....

oh and as far as the touch goes... no feeling=no touch, women are emotional beings... [emotions=touch] work on getting her back emotionally and the physical might follow

10-27-2009, 03:22 PM	#2 (permalink)
hoping Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 171	Re: My wife told me she is unhappy with our marriage it sounds to me like she is probably getting a lot of negative influence form her friends and family and perhaps the money situation is not helping... perhaps you should focus your free time on finding a better pay check so you can relieve some of the burden she's feeling. that might help. and also, wine and dine her (not expensive, but next itme you are home cooking diner for her, make it a special one. you know, her favorite food, low lights and candles, fresh flowers and useing the "good dishes") show her that you know she's special. then, when she goes and tels her "friends" that her ____ husband did this last night (my wifes friend talk bad about men.... [fill in the blank] is for however she has started addressing you to them, i am sure it's probably not [loving] at least not at the moment) they will respond by saying how they wish they could find some one who would do that for them.... just a thought.... oh and as far as the touch goes... no feeling=no touch, women are emotional beings... [emotions=touch] work on getting her back emotionally and the physical might follow __________________ My marriage is a wreck.... But hopefully, with time, patience and love, that will change. Pray for me as i will pray for all of you, not that our marriages get better, not that our loved one turn around but that we all shall find happiness, piece, love, trust and confidence.... GOD bless and good luck, we all need it.