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Corpuswife · 10-27-2009, 03:31 PM

Absolutely-I think the ability to be satisfied is within us all. It's when we look for outside resources that this satisfaction falls short.

However, I think there will be moments when even the most satisfied person falls short. We are humans. When our H aren't satisfied emotionally..it's not this rare occurance. It's a life that they have lived their WHOLE lives!

He seems to be more open and honest with you. He is being emotionally honest it seems. He is feeling these feelings and even though it may be "unkind" in NG behavior..it's his truth. It seems to be a relatively new event for him to be able to say hurtful things to you openly. He knows this is hurtful but says them anyway. It's progress for him. Hurtful to you.

Who knows what will really come of your marriage or what is the truth NOW? You have many months to "deal" with your H and his behavior. I would quit talking the emotional stuff with him...unless you can handle it (his truth). To me...talking about my relationship is "what's the point?"

I allow him to make his "moves" (subtle ones). I keep moving on. I keep doing what I want or feel like.

You H is further away as he feels that he "tried."

You keep moving on K, like you have....

Arrange for the solicitor if he can't get it together soon.

Why be in financial limbo?

10-27-2009, 03:31 PM	#186 (permalink)
Corpuswife Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 2,632	Re: My New Beginning Absolutely-I think the ability to be satisfied is within us all. It's when we look for outside resources that this satisfaction falls short. However, I think there will be moments when even the most satisfied person falls short. We are humans. When our H aren't satisfied emotionally..it's not this rare occurance. It's a life that they have lived their WHOLE lives! He seems to be more open and honest with you. He is being emotionally honest it seems. He is feeling these feelings and even though it may be "unkind" in NG behavior..it's his truth. It seems to be a relatively new event for him to be able to say hurtful things to you openly. He knows this is hurtful but says them anyway. It's progress for him. Hurtful to you. Who knows what will really come of your marriage or what is the truth NOW? You have many months to "deal" with your H and his behavior. I would quit talking the emotional stuff with him...unless you can handle it (his truth). To me...talking about my relationship is "what's the point?" I allow him to make his "moves" (subtle ones). I keep moving on. I keep doing what I want or feel like. You H is further away as he feels that he "tried." You keep moving on K, like you have.... Arrange for the solicitor if he can't get it together soon. Why be in financial limbo?