Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - she's not happy about splitting the bills.

djguy13 · 10-28-2009, 02:19 PM

I've been married for almost 6 years now.
When I met her she was making more money than me.
We know make about the same. She's off the books and I work at an office.
Since day one we started splitting the bills half and half.
3 years ago I started contributing more towards the rent. We was paying 65/35. Now i found a part time job dj'ing at a local bar and this provides more cash. I used this cash to eat out and pay for when I we go food shopping. I try to pay more than her. It's always 70/30 for food shopping.
PROBLEM #1. She hates my DJ job. I'm quitting the gig next weekend just because of her.
PROBLEM #2. She just asked me to leave the house (again) because I was talking about getting a new car (BMW) and last week I asked her to contribute with $20 when we went out to eat. This was like the 5th time in a month that we went out and I OOK CARE OF THE BILL THE PREVIOUS 4 TIMEEESS!!!!!!!!!!!
She said "how could you ask me to contribute with $20 but you're thinking about buying a $500 a month car?"

WHAT DO YOU THINK????????

10-28-2009, 02:19 PM	#1 (permalink)
djguy13 Registered User Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 12	she's not happy about splitting the bills. I've been married for almost 6 years now. When I met her she was making more money than me. We know make about the same. She's off the books and I work at an office. Since day one we started splitting the bills half and half. 3 years ago I started contributing more towards the rent. We was paying 65/35. Now i found a part time job dj'ing at a local bar and this provides more cash. I used this cash to eat out and pay for when I we go food shopping. I try to pay more than her. It's always 70/30 for food shopping. PROBLEM #1. She hates my DJ job. I'm quitting the gig next weekend just because of her. PROBLEM #2. She just asked me to leave the house (again) because I was talking about getting a new car (BMW) and last week I asked her to contribute with $20 when we went out to eat. This was like the 5th time in a month that we went out and I OOK CARE OF THE BILL THE PREVIOUS 4 TIMEEESS!!!!!!!!!!! She said "how could you ask me to contribute with $20 but you're thinking about buying a $500 a month car?" WHAT DO YOU THINK???????? Last edited by djguy13; 10-28-2009 at 02:25 PM.