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lostguy · 08-15-2012, 06:02 PM

She must have come home this morning for something and then left while I was at work because I noticed some things moved around.

About an hour ago I was in my backyard reading a book and when I went inside I saw her car in the driveway. I never heard here because I was in the back and the downstairs is it's own apartment. While i was eating dinner I heard and saw her leave.

The only way I know where she is these days is via facebook where's she'll check herself in at places. She was hanging out with her sister over the weekend because she checked herself in at her town and he sister even liked it. Then she checks herself in at other restaurants and even posts pics. The pics are always with former students who graduated, but they are always of girls. Even the comments under the pictures reflect that.

So, what's the best plan of attack now? I want to end the relationship and the only thing we have between us is the house which is about $100,000 under water so it's not like we can make money if we sell it. I have no problem keeping the house and renting out the downstairs. I know her sister, the one who slept with the kid, is currently going through a divorce (she is the one that left, no him) and is using legal zoom. Do I really need to have a lawyer involved? We are not blessed with much money.

08-15-2012, 06:02 PM	#9 (permalink)
lostguy Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 42	Re: Time To Take Action She must have come home this morning for something and then left while I was at work because I noticed some things moved around. About an hour ago I was in my backyard reading a book and when I went inside I saw her car in the driveway. I never heard here because I was in the back and the downstairs is it's own apartment. While i was eating dinner I heard and saw her leave. The only way I know where she is these days is via facebook where's she'll check herself in at places. She was hanging out with her sister over the weekend because she checked herself in at her town and he sister even liked it. Then she checks herself in at other restaurants and even posts pics. The pics are always with former students who graduated, but they are always of girls. Even the comments under the pictures reflect that. So, what's the best plan of attack now? I want to end the relationship and the only thing we have between us is the house which is about $100,000 under water so it's not like we can make money if we sell it. I have no problem keeping the house and renting out the downstairs. I know her sister, the one who slept with the kid, is currently going through a divorce (she is the one that left, no him) and is using legal zoom. Do I really need to have a lawyer involved? We are not blessed with much money.