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Old 10-29-2009, 08:14 AM   #5 (permalink)
preso
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Default Re: she's not happy about splitting the bills.

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Originally Posted by MEM11363 View Post
Do you save money/does she? Is the saved money going into a shared account? Why does it matter who much you pay for bills vs what she does?

Do you have a budget that you both agreed to that gives both of you the same amount of discretionary spending.

I would never have married if I had to pay half the bills, I would have got a room mate.
My husband pays all bills and even gives me spending money.

Guess this goes to say its best if a women, for the woman to marry a man who is not just scraping by, so nickels and dimes are not issues. Paying half the bills is what room amates do, not spouses. That is my feeling on the matter.
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