Quote:
Originally Posted by frustratedinphx
Michzz- have you ever had a baby? they test you for everything in the book prior to delivery. so no, i have no STDs and wouldn't dream of putting my baby at risk for being exposed to one.
|
I and my wife have two kids and I am familiar with the testing done for STDs on pregnant women. I made my comment because it was not clear to me that you were avoiding a physical intimate affair with somebody. Not only that, just because you get tested does not mean that you are cleared of an STD, that just detects some kinds of STDs, not all. And that is after the fact, you know that.
Whatever it is you are doing with or without your husband, being pregnant and cheating is very bad.
Now that the baby is here, you need to work on your loyalties. yes, your parents are important, but your husband is your primary family. You and your parents have forgotten that.
Yes, he mouthed off to them, but they did not know when they should get out of the way.
Picking family is not an all or nothing situation.
But they should know when it is time to go. You too. Your husband was being smothered and sidetracked. You know it.
it is what you wanted.