justean

hi j, well i had the same as u, my first hubby had an affair, second hubby has just had a one nite stand and we have 2 children.
i believe u r right in your instinct. my instincts were correct with both of mine. and no you are not over reacting.
im being honest of my opinion ( coming from a scorned woman herself) its not a joke - its real.
you can tell yourself as much as you like - but its real.
most men given it on a plate will take it, i promise. (there is the odd exception) but you have to be your own detective. you have to dig deeper. the answers might not b to your liking but atleast you know.
like me you r just unfortunate.
explicit material from another women in emails is real.
explicit material on websites, well id say alot of ppl do it. websites are fantasy. there is a difference.
take care j