Re: Need opinions, lots of help...and a plan.
It's really painful when the person you love struggles with the number of issues as it sounds like yours does. It sounds like you've been supportive the best you know how - but at the end of the day he's not willing to help himself! Try not to fall into the trap of, "if only I do x-y-z then maybe it will change..." At this point, he needs to take responsibility for his own problems and behavior (which by the way have also been your problems being in relationship with him.)
If you decide to end it, take away the knowledge that you did everything you could - but he wasn't willing to meet you halfway. At some point we all have to take care of ourselves.
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