Re: afraid there's no hope
You need professional help. "Happiness" and "love" are not enough in a marriage made of two adults. You have children. It is your moral responsibility to do everything you can to stay together, sans abuse.
A person I respect very much once told me that if you do not "feel" love, you "behave" love. Love is a behavior. Your feeling will catch up with your behavior. You two need to get this marriage back on track.
Having said this, if you both are not serious about this marriage, you will not succeed.
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